There is Victory in the Name Jesus

There are moments in this life where the weight of spiritual warfare feels unbearable. I find myself paralyzed—not by what I see, but by the invisible war waged in my mind and spirit. It’s as if the enemy is constantly whispering lies of defeat into my ears. Without even realizing it, I begin to spiral—drawn into a pit of sorrow, pain, and overwhelming exhaustion. My heart races, my palms grow sweaty, and I close my eyes, taking deep breaths, wondering how I ended up in such a battle.

But even in that silence… the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit breaks through. And He reminds me who I am.
I am loved.
I am worthy.
I am treasured.
I am enough.

In that holy moment, I rise up and begin to declare victory over my life, my marriage, and my children. I remember that through faith in Jesus Christ, I hold the key to every victory. “The horse is made ready for the day of battle, but the victory belongs to the Lord” (Proverbs 21:31).

Ladies, hear me: you do not fight this battle alone.

When you step into the war for your marriage, your family, your peace—you’re entering a spiritual battlefield. And unless you’re prepared, the lies of the enemy will leave you paralyzed. But God is calling you to rise up. Prepare your horse. Put on your armor. Don’t let the pain of today keep you from the promise of tomorrow.

No matter how weary or broken you feel, seek the Lord. Stay steadfast in prayer. Immerse yourself in God’s Word. Set your mind and heart on the One who fights for you. Yes, some days it feels like you have no strength left to even pick up the saddle—but it is your faith that will carry you through. It is your faith that places the blood of Jesus over the doorway of your home. It is your faith that will break chains and set your husband free.

You may feel outnumbered. You may feel unseen. But let me assure you, heaven sees you. God is with you. And the victory is already won.

As the Bible tells us:

“Our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.” (Ephesians 6:12)

So today, I challenge you—reject the lies of the enemy and rise up in truth.
Declare victory over your life, your husband, and your marriage.
This battle is not yours—it belongs to the Lord.
And through Him… you will see a VICTORY.

When the Battle Is Over: A Devotion for the Wife of a PTSD Warrior

When the battlefield goes silent, a new war begins—the battle of the mind. Your husband is forever changed. Your marriage is forever changed. And so are you.

They say time heals all wounds, but if I’m being honest, time has only carved out deeper ones. I’ve learned that true healing—lasting, soul-deep healing—can only come from God. Life as the wife of someone with PTSD is a silent suffering that only fellow survivors can truly understand. It’s waking up every morning, putting on a brave face, pouring yourself out in hopes of bringing light into the darkness that now lives in your home.

And yet, what our husbands need most is not our strength, our solutions, or even our smiles. What they need is our consistent, unfailing love—a love that chooses them again and again, even in the hardest, darkest moments. I know how exhausting that love can be. I know the minefield you walk daily, unsure what might trigger an explosion of anger, silence, or shame. Addiction. Isolation. Bitterness. A deep sense of unworthiness. I’ve seen it. I live it.

More than anything, I long to see the man I love rise from the ashes. So many days feel like grief—grieving the man he once was, while watching the shell of who he’s become slowly fade. But friend, this is where God steps in.

This is the place where ashes turn into beauty.

God sees you. He sees your heartbreak, your loyalty, your hope that flickers even on the dimmest days. Isaiah 61:3 reminds us that He will bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. Through your steadfast faith, through your tears and prayers, God is working—even when you can’t see it.

Wife of a warrior, this battle isn’t yours to win. “Do not be afraid or discouraged… For the battle is not yours, but God’s.” (2 Chronicles 20:15)

So today, press into His Spirit. Breathe deep. You are not alone, and you are not without hope. Your faithfulness matters. Your prayers matter. And your story is not over.

Let Him carry what you can’t. Let Him fight the battle that overwhelms you. Let Him bring life back into the places that feel lifeless.

Because with God—nothing is beyond redemption.