Strength for the Weary Warrior

When the wages of war get heavy, you will often find yourself lost in the loneliness of the battlefield. If you silently remain there for too long, it becomes a dangerous place—a dark place—where the enemy creeps into the silence to destroy what you have worked so desperately to sustain.

It is in those moments that the small whispers of defeat grow louder—reminders of your failures, fears of your inadequacies, and worries about not possessing the strength to face another day. These thoughts strike when you are at your weakest.

And yet, it is in these very moments that you must gather what strength you have left to employ your most powerful weapon: prayer.

Your weakest prayers—those uttered from a place of complete desperation—are not ignored; they are heard, treasured, and cherished by your Heavenly Father. He longs to protect you from the evil one.

In the darkest moments of your marriage, you must prioritize your spiritual well-being—not only to guard your own heart but to shield your family from the lies of the enemy. This is how you claim victory over your life, over your marriage, and over your home. This is how you find the strength to pray fervently, even when it feels like you have nothing left to give.

The Bible tells us:

“Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.” (Ephesians 5:15-16)

Wives, we are warned in the living Word of God that our days on this earth are filled with evil. Every single day you will face battles against an enemy who wants to destroy your marriage, your faith, and your peace. That’s why, each day, you must make choices rooted deeply in faith—choices that put God first, then your spouse.

Your decision to stand in faith in the loneliest places—when no one else sees, when no one else knows—may be the very thing that brings hope, healing, and victory to your marriage.

There is Victory in the Name Jesus

There are moments in this life where the weight of spiritual warfare feels unbearable. I find myself paralyzed—not by what I see, but by the invisible war waged in my mind and spirit. It’s as if the enemy is constantly whispering lies of defeat into my ears. Without even realizing it, I begin to spiral—drawn into a pit of sorrow, pain, and overwhelming exhaustion. My heart races, my palms grow sweaty, and I close my eyes, taking deep breaths, wondering how I ended up in such a battle.

But even in that silence… the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit breaks through. And He reminds me who I am.
I am loved.
I am worthy.
I am treasured.
I am enough.

In that holy moment, I rise up and begin to declare victory over my life, my marriage, and my children. I remember that through faith in Jesus Christ, I hold the key to every victory. “The horse is made ready for the day of battle, but the victory belongs to the Lord” (Proverbs 21:31).

Ladies, hear me: you do not fight this battle alone.

When you step into the war for your marriage, your family, your peace—you’re entering a spiritual battlefield. And unless you’re prepared, the lies of the enemy will leave you paralyzed. But God is calling you to rise up. Prepare your horse. Put on your armor. Don’t let the pain of today keep you from the promise of tomorrow.

No matter how weary or broken you feel, seek the Lord. Stay steadfast in prayer. Immerse yourself in God’s Word. Set your mind and heart on the One who fights for you. Yes, some days it feels like you have no strength left to even pick up the saddle—but it is your faith that will carry you through. It is your faith that places the blood of Jesus over the doorway of your home. It is your faith that will break chains and set your husband free.

You may feel outnumbered. You may feel unseen. But let me assure you, heaven sees you. God is with you. And the victory is already won.

As the Bible tells us:

“Our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.” (Ephesians 6:12)

So today, I challenge you—reject the lies of the enemy and rise up in truth.
Declare victory over your life, your husband, and your marriage.
This battle is not yours—it belongs to the Lord.
And through Him… you will see a VICTORY.

When the Battle Is Over: A Devotion for the Wife of a PTSD Warrior

When the battlefield goes silent, a new war begins—the battle of the mind. Your husband is forever changed. Your marriage is forever changed. And so are you.

They say time heals all wounds, but if I’m being honest, time has only carved out deeper ones. I’ve learned that true healing—lasting, soul-deep healing—can only come from God. Life as the wife of someone with PTSD is a silent suffering that only fellow survivors can truly understand. It’s waking up every morning, putting on a brave face, pouring yourself out in hopes of bringing light into the darkness that now lives in your home.

And yet, what our husbands need most is not our strength, our solutions, or even our smiles. What they need is our consistent, unfailing love—a love that chooses them again and again, even in the hardest, darkest moments. I know how exhausting that love can be. I know the minefield you walk daily, unsure what might trigger an explosion of anger, silence, or shame. Addiction. Isolation. Bitterness. A deep sense of unworthiness. I’ve seen it. I live it.

More than anything, I long to see the man I love rise from the ashes. So many days feel like grief—grieving the man he once was, while watching the shell of who he’s become slowly fade. But friend, this is where God steps in.

This is the place where ashes turn into beauty.

God sees you. He sees your heartbreak, your loyalty, your hope that flickers even on the dimmest days. Isaiah 61:3 reminds us that He will bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. Through your steadfast faith, through your tears and prayers, God is working—even when you can’t see it.

Wife of a warrior, this battle isn’t yours to win. “Do not be afraid or discouraged… For the battle is not yours, but God’s.” (2 Chronicles 20:15)

So today, press into His Spirit. Breathe deep. You are not alone, and you are not without hope. Your faithfulness matters. Your prayers matter. And your story is not over.

Let Him carry what you can’t. Let Him fight the battle that overwhelms you. Let Him bring life back into the places that feel lifeless.

Because with God—nothing is beyond redemption.

A Message to the Wives Who Carry the Weight of PTSD and Addiction

The weight of a spouse’s addiction is overwhelming for the wife who is trying to hold her family together. The Bible tells us, “the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God” (1 Corinthians 11:3). When a wife of a husband with PTSD is forced to carry the weight of being the head of the home while silently suffering through his addiction, it can feel unmanageable—like it’s draining every ounce of joy left in her body.

But you are not alone. There are wives who share this same pain, who grieve the loss of the love they once knew. War changes people; it robs us of the men we married and forces us to learn how to love again in a new and often painful way. It brings suffering, heartache, and a daily battle that only God can give the strength to endure. Wives, pray for your husbands. Prayer changes things, and I am living proof that God is the only source of true healing in the midst of suffering. As Isaiah 41:10 reminds us: “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

The Power of Standing Together

No wife should have to face the battles of PTSD alone. When we come together as women who understand the unique challenges of loving and supporting a husband who is struggling, we find strength, healing, and hope in one another. There is power in shared stories and in knowing someone else truly understands the silent cries that often go unheard.

My heart is to be a safe place for the hurting—a listening ear for the voiceless who are carrying the heavy weight of being a PTSD wife. Together, we can lift one another up in prayer, share encouragement, and remind each other that God sees every tear and hears every unspoken cry. Galatians 6:2 tells us, “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” We can walk this journey together, trusting that God’s strength is made perfect in our weakness.

Closing Encouragement

If you are a wife walking through the storm of PTSD and addiction, know this: you are not invisible, and your battle is not hopeless. God is your refuge and strength, and He has placed others in your path to walk with you. There is healing in connection, comfort in prayer, and hope when we choose to lift each other up.

Prayer:
Lord, we bring every hurting wife to You today. Be her peace, her strength, and her comfort. Surround her with women who understand her pain and can remind her of Your love. Bring healing to broken marriages and hope to weary hearts. In Jesus’ name, Amen.